Everything will be changed
Do you have this experience that someone you do not know then become your best friend and someone you know well but there is a long time no contact? This is the friendship; some of them will not last long as people’s wish. Somebody believes that friendship is different with other things; it will last a long time. But as people say, everything will be changed, even though that’s friendship. There are three main reasons long distance, different life in a period of time and personality change after a long time could effect that friendship do not last longer.
The first reason I want to say is long distance cause friendship do not last that long. Sometimes, after people grow up, friends may go to different school to continue their academic lives. This situation makes people have a long distance between each other. Most parents will choose a better school for their children no matter how far is it. So between friends, they cannot make their own choices. Also, people move to another city could cause friendship do not last longer. Because that people live in different city means they cannot meet very often and they will have some now friendships. New friendships come, and the old gone. And the biggest long distance is different country. For me, I came to America two years ago, and some of my friends I never see them for a long time. Of course there is some of my friendships end after I came to America. So long distance is an important reason can cause friendship do not last so long.
The second reason is the environment; different people live in the different environment, so they have different experience in a period of time. Like people live in China and America. There are two totally different countries and two different society environments. People live in different environment like that will learn different cultures and experiences, so there would not any topics between friends they both want to talk about. No topic, no talking, friendship will not last so long. Also, people have different academic plans. Some of them want to go to university and some of them prefer to get a job. That’s cause a big society difference between friends. Their living environments are two different things. If people work for feeding families, there will be more pressures on their live.