范文:
Over the years, there has been an unwritten rule in my family, that is, when eating, if the elders don't use chopsticks, others can't eat first.
I remember when I was 5 years old, my little friend and I played downstairs all morning. At that time, I was really hungry and thirsty.
After saying goodbye to my little friend, I hurried home and thought that I could eat my favorite coke, chicken wings and curry beef for lunch. The reason why I could eat these delicious dishes was because I had relatives at home.
As soon as I entered the corridor, I smelled a strong smell of food. I became more hungry, so I accelerated my pace and couldn't wait to run into the house.
All kinds of dishes have been arranged on the table, not only cola, chicken wings and curry, but also various delicious dishes such as turbot and fish flavored shredded meat. These are my favorite dishes.
At this time, my mother was greeting relatives to sit down. I quickly found a seat to sit down and looked straight at the delicious food on the table,Just pick it up.
The chopsticks reached into the plate, but as soon as I was ready to pick up a chicken wing, my mother pressed my hand and said to me kindly, "children, we should let the elders move chopsticks first." I had to retract my hand with chopsticks.
Grandma smiled at me and said, "let's eat together!" As soon as grandma spoke, a piece of chicken wing was immediately put on the plate by me, and I ate it with relish. After the guests left, my mother told me about "table manners".
On New Year's day this year, I went to my mother's classmate party. The dishes are all ready, but the people haven't come yet.
Everyone is waiting for a late uncle. At that time, how I wanted to hold a fragrant and tender bullfrog! However, I remembered what my mother taught me at home, so I controlled myself.
An aunt nearby said, "Zian, have some first." I said, "thank you, aunt. No, let's eat together later." I waited patiently until everyone was seated before I began to eat with everyone. My uncle and aunt kept boasting that I knew the rules and had good habits.
"Don't do it because it is small, and don't do it because it is small.". Good habits are often formed from an early age, starting bit by bit.
This family rule of my family is actually a kind of humility. Humility to elders is a kind of filial piety and virtue. Humility to others can win everyone's trust and praise.
翻译:
多年来我家有一条不成文的家规,就是吃饭时,如果长辈没动筷子,其他人不能先吃。
记得在我5岁那年,我和小伙伴在楼下玩了一上午,那时真是又饿又渴,和小伙伴告别后,我赶紧往家跑,边跑边想着午饭可以吃到我最喜欢的可乐鸡翅和咖喱牛肉,之所以能吃上这些美味的菜肴,是因为有亲戚在家里,我顺便“沾光”。
刚进楼道,我就闻到一股浓浓的饭菜香味,我更加饥肠辘辘了,于是加快了步伐,迫不及待地跑进家门,桌子上已经摆好了各色菜肴。不但有可乐鸡翅和咖喱,还有多宝鱼、鱼香肉丝等各式美味,这些都是我喜欢吃的菜。
这时候,妈妈正在招呼亲戚入座,我赶紧找了个位置坐下,眼睛直勾勾地看着桌子上的美味,顺手就拿起筷子伸到盘子里,可是刚准备夹起一块鸡翅,妈妈就按住了我的手,和颜悦色地对我说:“孩子,应该让长辈先动筷子。”
我只好把拿筷子的手缩回去。姥姥笑眯眯地看着我说:“大家一起吃吧!”姥姥一放话,一块鸡翅立马就被我夹到盘子里,我津津有味地吃了起来。客人走后,妈妈又给我讲了一番“饭桌礼仪”。
今年元旦,我去参加妈妈的同学聚会。菜都上齐了,可人还没有来齐。大家都在等一位姗姗来迟的叔叔。
当时,我是多么想夹一块又香又嫩的牛蛙呀!可是,我想起了妈妈在家教我的道理,于是控制住了自己。旁边有一位阿姨说:“紫安,你先吃点儿吧。”
我说:“谢谢阿姨,不用了,等会儿咱们一起吃吧。”我耐心地等到人都坐齐了,才和大家一起开始吃。叔叔阿姨不住地夸讲我懂规矩,习惯好。
“勿以善小而不为,勿以恶小而为之”。好的习惯往往是从小养成的,从一点一滴做起。我家的这条家规实际上是一种谦让,对长辈谦让是一种孝道和美德,对别人谦让可以赢得大家的信任和赞扬。