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自卑的特征
1.自卑的人习惯性顺从别人。明明是自己不想答应的事也会答应下来,别人让自己不舒服了也不会表现出来。用无害和宽容换取对方的好感。
2.害怕冲突。明知道应该维护自己应得的权益,但预料到对方不会轻易的答应自己,就会给自己找借口想着算了,多一事不如少一事。
自卑性格的形成往往来自于原生家庭,来自于父母亲人对自己的不信任,总是说自己这也不好那也不行。心理学家阿德勒说过“不幸的人一生都在治愈童年”。
你不要在自卑下去了,你要知道人和人不一样,冲突是常态。顺从别人就算他对你有好感,也是轻蔑的好感。好生活是要靠争取的,自卑和不自卑差的是一整个人生。