This is such a typical question… however it still gets me
“Would you rather be with the person that you love, or the person that loves you?”
My answer has always been “the person that loves me”
Maybe is because I am self centered and selfish, so that I won’t allow myself to go through the other one.
Love is never fair, and this is why I didn’t want to be part of it.
To me… it’s all about fate
Therefore, if you are not meant to be… no matter how great you are, how hard you tried, how much you went through, you will fail ultimately.
To a certain extent, love is like gambling, but even more unpredictable.
At this moment…you may be occupying his/her whole heart. You have his/her everything, feeling that you are richer than anyone, and are a true winner.
However… the next moment? Everything can slowly slip away or just suddenly disappear.
All there is left are you, and your broken heart…
On the other hand…Some time, you can win the jackpot without even knowing that you have contributed to the game.
But… think about it… it’s a surprise for sure… but…. Is it a good one?
It just brings a whole lot of trouble….
Love and be loved… they are all tragic …
The first one will eventually make you tired
And the other one will make you feel uncomfortable
Therefore… is there really a better choice?
Have you ever wondered how the world would be if love is fair?
That means the amount of love you puts in equals to the amount of love you gets
In that way… the question that makes everyone ponder won’t exist!
Will everything be better then?
If the world is really like that… maybe I wouldn’t be able to have the things that I have now…